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Intelligent Biped is a forum for discussing ideas, issues and solutions with a focus on our inherent human characteristics of cleverness and kindness. This forum is called "intelligent biped" because I believe kindness and cleverness to be interdependent at a biological level. Simply put, bipedal animals can't have big brains without fundamental kindness and nurturing. This forum will share and discuss issues, ideas and solutions that use and enhance our inherent cleverness and kindness amongst the chaos of everyday life.
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Sunday, 29 March 2015

My Kids' Moral Character Starts with Me ... more on the Rowers

 
So, two kids have a brief brain explosion at an airport ... 
 
(photos from Facebook)
 

There is the Blog by Brendon Malone doing the rounds on Facebook entitled "Son, Your Character is More Important to Me than Legal Action".  This takes the writer's personal point of view as the parent of a two year old and imagines what this two year old might say in his defence, if as teenager he had been sent home having broken the law on a sports trip.  It basically argues that the boys parents have undermined the school's view of the code of conduct and by doing to have done a disservice to their children's upbringing and character.  A commonly held position on this issue.

I agree with Malone that kids need consequences and that it is bad for parents to be wishy washy on rules. 

I disagree with Malone's application of these principles to the current case.  Malone's argument is fatally flawed for four reasons: